"I was so worried about my two boys, prior to them coming to live with us "me stepmom and Dad. They were acting out and having nightmares.They simply would not want to be separated at bedtime and I didn't know what to do. But then we found Vilia, a trauma counselor, who not only helped me deal with my fears, but helped them so much. I loved the fact that se she did not simply start with counseling but gained their trust first, we were all so comfortable. She helped them to process their emotions and to learn how to cope with the trauma. I'm so grateful for her help, and I know that our boys are better off because of her. "They were finally able to sleep in their separate rooms and a lot more confident.

Hanli, South Africa

V.Y.R Behavioural Consultingu

V.Y.R Behavioural Consulting

Hi, I am Vilia Y Reynolds, a Professional Learning Development Trauma Practitioner specialising in trauma coaching and commonly referred to as a Trauma Life Coach. I am a Certified Trauma Incident Reduction Facilitator (TIRF) and a registered member of the Professional Excellence Team of Trauma Practitioners of TIRA and TIRA-SA.

I have over 40 years of experience in learning and development. I have honed my expertise in guiding individuals towards healing and growth. My unique therapeutic approach, the Wardrobe of Love Life-Coaching Model® WoL™, blends multiple techniques from Applied Metapsychology to support individuals on their transformative journeys. My dedication to continuous learning and development ensures I remain at the forefront of trauma education and life coaching knowledge. Based on principles of compassion and proficiency, I provide a safe space for individuals to address trauma, reduce life stress, and unlock their true potential, empowering them to lead fulfilling lives.


Thank you for your interest in my Learning Development Specialist business. If you have any questions or would like to learn more about my Trauma Facilitating and Life Coaching programs, we are here to assist you. Please fill out the contact form below, and my dedicated team will respond to your inquiry promptly. Your privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us. We are committed to providing a safe and supportive environment for your personal growth and healing journey. We look forward to connecting with you and supporting you in achieving your goals.